Today I just want to share my opinion on the so-called "3rd party" in a relationship. Most of the people will think that 3rd party is bad. But I personally don't think so.
In a relationship, if a couple loves each other deeply, do you think there is any chance 3rd party can come in? Think again. If there is problem in a relationship, do you think they might end up breaking up eventhough there is no 3rd party?
When a couple breaks up because of the appearance of the 3rd party, he/she is not the one to be blamed. There is no right or wrong in a relationship. 3rd party is only acting as an enzyme that accelerates the process of breaking up. If a relationship is strong, there's no way the 3rd party can have any chance of penetrating their bond.
When a relationship is weak, the couple will soon be torn apart too even without a 3rd party. The only difference is timing. Either they end it earlier or they end it later. 3rd party will make the process faster and usually people don't like it because they think they can have chance to amend and continue their relationship if in the 1st place the 3rd party didn't appear.
This is just an excuse used by them to cover up the problems that arise in a relationship.
P/S: This is just merely my opinion and it has nothing to do with anyone.
7 comments:
+I agree and disagree.
+Even the 3rd party has 2 kinds.
+One that intends 2 break apart 2 ppl. And one that simply is the better person for the one.
+It rly depends. Sumtimes along the way we juz meet sum1 that is more suited wif us.
+So yea. It's nt necessary the 3rd person's fault when that happens.
Juz that it cudn't be prevented.
+Even if the 3rd person doesn't exist. There's bound 2 be problems in the relationship itself as u said so.
+So there's the right 3rd person n the wrong 3rd person.
u have analysed it into deeper elaboration... lol
but u r rite. i agree with u..
I think that if you think you've fallen in love with someone, and (a) you either didn't do anything about it until that person got attached to someone else, or (b) you fell in love with someone who is already attached, then that loss is for you to bear, not the girlfriend or boyfriend of the person you fell in love with.
"you" is a generic term, not specifically referring to you. Ahaha.
[hwei] for (a), i agree with u. it is a loss for the person who din do anything.
for (b), i don quite agree. even if u fell in love with someone who is already attached, that doesn't mean is a loss to u. bcoz u nvr even hv the chance to be with that person, so wat loss is there to bear?
Loss can be borne in many ways, whether they are real losses or not. For example, because some people can't bear the thought of being sad over a boy/girl they can't have, they go and become a third party instead. The thought that the right person for you is in the arms of another person can be very difficult to ignore.
it's true that "The thought that the right person for you is in the arms of another person can be very difficult to ignore."
But love is a choice rite?
Yup, well said.
But feelings aren't. =)
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