I'm not a person who is so much into love relationship. My priority in life is family and friends. Then only life partner comes in. So to me, whatever it is, I always consider after my family and friends first.
If i'm really involved in a love relationship, I hope my other half would understand that I won't put him/her ranking as 1st place in my heart.
What I really want from a love relationship is True Love. And my definition of true love is what comes from a pure heart.
Love is a CHOICE that people make after they are being attracted to certain people and have strong feeling for him/her. Love is a DECISION after you have made, you must be fully committed to it. And fully committed is full responsibility for the relationship and the other half.
Love is not something easy. Both parties must be tolerant, patient, understanding, caring and all the characteristics you can think about when comes to love. It involves great passion and time. It's not something that can be gained within a day.
I think I've gone out of topic. What I'm actually trying to say is:
If you love someone, you don't have to see him/her everyday, every moment, every hour, every minute, every second... Although in your heart you always wish to be with her/him all the time.
If you love someone, you don't have to ask for anything from him/her or request any changes from him/her and just accept him/her the way he/she is... Although you know that those are their weaknesses that they should change.
If you love someone, you give without expecting any return.
If you love someone, you change your weaknesses without being asked to do so.
If you love someone, you forgive endlessly.
If you love someone... (continue yourself)
So if you love someone from your true heart, even a long distance relationship will not do both of you apart. This is a test to your true love.
And if you love someone truly, even a simple smile without any conversation means a thousand words.
The worst kind of lonely.
3 years ago
2 comments:
"And if you love someone truly, even a simple smile without any conversation means a thousand words."
+This is wot I've been stressing 2 ppl!!
+Even guys that says they like me, yet do not understand!!
+When they're out of topic, end of story, lol, so wth.
+“Let the people who never find true love believe that there is no such thing. Their faith will make it easier for them to live and die.” -Wislawa Szymborska.
yup..^^
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