Opinion is a very subjective matter. Everyone will have their own thoughts and opinions. There is no absolute right or wrong in opinion because it is merely a judgment. It is common that sometimes people might disagree with your opinion.
When we disagree with your opinion, you said we are childish.
When we disagree with your opinion, you said we are stubborn.
When we disagree with your opinion, you said our EQ is low.
When you give your opinion, we listened to you and respect your thoughts although we might disagree with it. We don’t condemn you. But you who always think that you’re always right and whatever opinion that other people give to you are always wrong when you disagree with it.
So in this case, who is actually more childish, stubborn and has lower EQ?
It is very funny that sometimes people just know how to judge others and forget to judge themselves. They can give plenty of bad comments about other people but they would never think of commenting on themselves. It is very important to remember that no one is perfect in this world and so everyone has weaknesses.
When you think that your opinions are always right and other people’s opinions are always wrong. Don’t you think you have over rated yourself? Have your ever calm down and reflect upon yourself?
Those who have high self-awareness (high EQ) would have known this fact. So when those people who listened to others opinion, although it might be a bad comment about them, and realized that actually it is their mistake, they would admit it. So when those people admit their mistake, humiliate themselves and throw away their pride to take the first step to apologize to others, they are actually the ones that have higher self-awareness as compared to those who don’t even want to admit their mistakes and tried every possible way to blame it on others.
It’s a courageous move for those who actually humiliate themselves putting away their pride to apologize to others. This also shows that they are sincere. But when you don’t even wish to forgive them, then there is nothing else that they can do.
I’m a human being. I have weaknesses too. So when you criticized me, at least I would stop and ponder on your comments. And when I think that what you said about me is true, then I would admit it and apologize.
You are a human being too. You too have weaknesses. But when I slightly give my opinion about you, you straight away got angry. You think whatever things that I said are bullshit. You don’t even stop and ponder upon yourself. What more to admitting your mistakes when you already think that you are always right. If what I said about you isn’t right, then why should you got angry? When you’re angry it only shows that I have hit the right button. What I said about you is true but your pride is so high that you just wouldn’t want to admit it.
You said you have encountered many types of people before. You said you’ve seen the world. You said you have more experience than anyone else of the same age. But you don’t even have little self-awareness about yourself. How good can you be?
2 comments:
People who cannot accept other people's opinion are the ones with low EQ.
Sometimes I really don't want to argue with them (Not to say I'm RIGHT or WRONG), BUT they will always be RIGHT. So buang masa je ckp byk.
In the end, I'm the one who will feel annoyed,so it's better to juz shut ourselves up n let them make a fool of themselves to know something that they think is RIGHT(But probably very WRONG).
I think most of those people haven't go out into the working world, if they go out and work, they cant expect ppl to listen 2 them, they will hev 2 listen 2 ppl instead.
Haha... I also thought those who has not much experience would behave this way but this person is someone who has started working since last year. But the good news for her is, she need not listen to other people coz she's managing her own family business.
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